Sex Educator, Pleasure Advocate, Intimacy Coach, and Freelance Writer — Biography My name is Demeter Delune and I’ve been writing stories my entire life. Welcome to my page. I hope you find at least one story you can connect with. About four years ago, I began this journey on Medium, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets in story form, under my ‘real…

300 million liters of water a year are wasted on showerhead masturbation — here’s an alternative. — Last week, a major sex toy brand announced a new product, a showerhead created specifically for masturbation. I’ll admit, my first thought was that most of us who’ve ever used a showerhead for this purpose didn’t need a special contraption to make it work — but like most items in…

Publicly humiliating your partner should never be a thing, unless you’re into that. — Although I’ve personally dealt with a partner who felt like humiliating me in public was the answer to “fixing” whatever issue they had with me, thankfully it’s been so many years ago now, I tend to forget just how awful it is. …

Long-term relationships can breed disinterest in sex from women, but there’s more to it. — Something I am either asked about or have mentioned in comments a lot, especially from older gentlemen, has to do with their partners being uninterested in sex past a certain age. …

Societal shame can be countered if you want to. — Society likes to measure a woman’s worth by the number of sexual partners she’s had; the lower the number, the better. In fact, when you’re a woman, society wants you to have low numbers when it comes to a lot of things. …

A new study from Rosy and other research proves women crave variety. — Variety is the spice of life and according to new a new survey by women’s sexual health app, Rosy, no more so than in the bedroom. …

a kind of a haibun for Mother’s Day — Swollen with nectar blooms await pollination bees buzzing in flight We think of witches when we think of a cauldron, using it as a vessel to create something. The cauldron represents the womb in most Pagan religions, therefore, it can represent the Mother aspect of the goddess. …

Find ways to add sexy vibes to your daily life and watch your your sex life soar. — It’s finally May, and someone had the fantastic idea to deem it Masturbation May. Personally, I don’t need a holiday to enjoy myself in this manner, but if someone wants to make a holiday about one of my favorite pastimes, I’m not going to say no. Desire just sounds sexy…

Because I’m tired of seeing articles like this by random people not in the industry. — Once again I’ve come across an article written by someone not remotely connected to the sex industry, sharing answers to questions asked about what it’s like being a sex worker. No, it wasn’t an interview with a sex worker, at least, not directly. They admittedly “went down a rabbit hole”…