Sex Educator, Pleasure Advocate, Intimacy Coach, and Freelance Writer — Biography My name is Demeter Delune and I’ve been writing stories my entire life. Welcome to my page. I hope you find at least one story you can connect with. About four years ago, I began this journey on Medium, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets in story form, under my ‘real…

I think I may be onto something here… — I’m mostly “out” about being polyamorous even in my real life. By that I mean, I don’t hide my relationship status, but I don’t necessarily advertise who I am in those relationships with. Not all of my partners are as out as I am. For example, the couple I have…

Masturbation is healthy and natural. — No Nut November (NNN) first appeared on Urban Dictionary in 2011 in response to the NoFap community on Reddit, but didn’t gain momentum as a movement until 2017. Some sources claim its roots actually began as early as 2004 on body building forums, that seems to be a bit of…

If you’ve ever wondered which toys are best for solo time and more, keep reading before you shop. — One of the top questions asked of me as a sex expert (sexpert) is about which toy I recommend for various things. While I can’t tell someone how they’ll feel personally about a toy or even how it will work for them, I can recommend various toys based on my…

As the temperatures drop, get cozy with your partner and warm up with these spicy massage moves. — When I was giving massages professionally, I had clients ask for a happy ending, a lot. No, I don’t mean when I was working as an escort, I’m referring to my vanilla massage business. Professional massage is not intimate massage. I would venture to guess somewhere around 60 percent of…

Introducing the Vibrance Line, a new collection of products to support women in midlife. — As I’ve gotten older, one thing I’ve gotten a lot better about is hydrating. My go-to drink is water. Most of the time just plain, but often I add a bit of lemon to it to keep from being bored. Yes, plain water is boring sometimes! …

Working late took on a whole new meaning. — Getting along with your boss has its benefits. Your work environment is more relaxed, you enjoy coming to work, and you don’t mind doing your job. When you’re happy in your place of business you’re more productive. There’s getting along with your boss, then there’s really getting along with your…

Whether from a distance or in person, knowing how to get started is often the most difficult part for a submissive. — It’s October again, and in the sexual education sphere this means a number of sexy holidays are coming up. For those who participate in BDSM, it can mean the beginning of Locktober. What is Locktober? …

Violence against women is a problem and we need to stop minimizing it. — Data from U.S. crime reports suggest that about 1 in 5 homicide victims are killed by an intimate partner. The reports also found that over half of female homicide victims in the United States are killed by a current or former male intimate partner. …