All the claps.

It took me 3 marriages so similar to what you've described before I finally had enough.

My marriage to Damian has not been perfect by any means, and it seemed for a moment it was headed in the same direction, but thankfully he took his head out of his ass and was able to realize I was not "nagging", I was communicating and he began working on himself and we have never been better. Minus his current situation haha. But that isn't on either of us or our relationship.