Damian and I were talking about this tonight. He's become the "go to" guy for those in the closet for some reason. One who is super closeted but came out to him months ago made a fat joke to him last week at the catholic service he's been attending (he's put on a few pounds) and he just shrugged it off and said okay man, yeah I've been depressed, i'm working on it.

This week, the guy made another comment about his weight and said I thought you were working on it, you look like you're just getting fatter. Damian said dude it's been a week, back off. And hey, I can lose weight can you work on your internal homophobia? lol

He said the priest just looked at him and kind of cocked his head haha

He said the priest kept him after service and said that isn't a phrase I ever expected to hear in here. He said yeah, well, not many people are married to my wife haha so he had to explain about me. He said the priest said well it sounds like you've learned a lot from her and he told him yep, for sure.

Clearly my work is doing things haha