Elle makes excellent points.
But I would also like to add, that I am not a fan of Captain lying to his girlfriend nor the fact that he just kind of “dropped” the fact she exists into conversation like it was no big deal.
I’m a big believer in honesty, no matter what kind of relationship you’re having.
It’s true that with polyamory you create your own rules. But I believe they must be rooted in honesty and open communication.
I wish you the best with this and hope you find your way 💜