Great advice! I will say this too, definitely don't be pushy! Unicorns are flighty to a point as you said, but it's because they are inundated with messages and requests because they are so rare. And a lot of the time they are being pressured by couples because the instant they show up in a feed/online, they're being bombarded with messages from couples! It can be SO overwhelming. So if you're patient, kind, and genuine, it goes a long way.

I love your recommendation to gift to your unicorn. That would have been so lovely when I was putting myself out there as one. I did get gifts a lot when I was escorting/ProDomming, and I appreciated that so much (on top of my rate) because it showed me my clients cared beyond the hourly rate. It humanizes the experience more, yes, even as a person involved with a couple as their unicorn.

Also, to note, as a bi/pan woman, sometimes you may pay a little more attention to the female half of the couple and that might be a little offensive to the hubby and we really don't mean for it to. More often than not, we aren't trying to get in between the couple, so don't take it that way. It's just that often, we can easily find guys to play with, but it's harder to find women! So please take that as a sign we find your wife just as hot as you do! And sit back and enjoy the show <3