I have been so effing angry with J for a lot of things but never really about what went on between him and his wife, that is a whole other circus. What made me angry is how he treated YOU. But here's the thing, if he's truly ready to be where he belongs IMO, which is with you, then I'm down. I want you to be happy, period.

I don't condone cheating as you well know but I do understand it, a lot. I have mixed feelings about it, which is why I understand it. Shit happens.

I really hope he's finally ready to do what he needs to do to own up to his shit and be there for you. Love you dearly.