I was definitely not aiming that comment at you! There was one in your comments who made an offhand comment and I was being a little snarky haha.
With the couple I am regularly involved with, we don’t use condoms and we all test regularly. I’m not in a position to ever be pregnant again so I don’t have that concern any longer lol. But yes, I feel exactly what you’re saying. I have tried the panties and they just don’t work for me. Nor do other barriers like that.