JD--Thanks for your kind words and could not agree with you more about definitely make sure the ladies come first!
As for your threesome being a rare occurrence, I think it depends on the people you spend time with.
It's definitely not rare in my world. But again, my current husband would have said the same as you before we met. He'd never had a threesome before. Since we've been together, he's been involved in...I think 4? I'm not bragging, I just really enjoy being in group situations! I've been told I make people comfortable, I think it has a lot to do with the fact that I'm open and comfortable with myself. And I let people be who they are.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience. And for reading. I'm glad my stories resonate.