Thank you for letting me know how you found me! I’ve recently found Simon myself, or better yet he found me lol.
I know my initial experiences with anal were more than likely steered by the guys I was with and their viewing of porn. I know at no point in time was I ever exposed to anything about it at all in the very limited sex Ed I got.
I did try to teach myself even at a younger age. I read the joy of sex. I also managed to get my hands on a copy of the kama sutra. But without anyone willing to give any of those positions or possibilities a try it was kind of pointless for the moment anyway! Thankfully I eventually found decent partners and kept researching and learning on my own and eventually became and educator so others could learn from my mistakes.
This piece in particular is important to me because I keep seeing so many people saying women can’t or don’t enjoy anal and that’s so wrong.
Thanks so much for reading and responding. I appreciate you!