This OUTSTANDING article is going to make a lot of men really uncomfortable and OH WELL. Because the ones who are really uncomfortable are the ones who need to take every single word to heart.

I've just written (today) about how men complain about sex toys getting them off too easily or not easily enough, or don't work well enough during partnered sex or too well, you get my drift. It's always something. I also wrote a piece a little while ago about why wives may not want to have sex with their husbands and you can imagine some of the comments.

I've tried to have conversations with some of the men on this platform and others about it, whether it is about medical issues, or the things you discussed here. Some of them are respectful like a few of your commenters have been here so far, and realize there are things THEY need to be doing. But others, refuse to accept they play a part in all of this, that they may not have been behaving well through all the years of their marriage.

Thank you for writing this, it's fantastic and I really hope it hits home for those it needs to.