Tony--
Clearly, I'm not Thelma, but since the reply was on my article, I'll still apologize.
It's easy for things to get lost here, for some reason I don't understand!
Yes, I understand what you're saying, honestly that's kind of where the market goes for women as well, but it seems like we like that, maybe? I don't know, there's also the fact that the market definitely caters to us in this respect (one of the few markets that tends to)
I wonder, is there something you feel like YOU are personally missing when you use a toy?
As for company recommendations here is the link to my website where I've written a specific post about the companies I personally recommend based on my experiences:
https://www.demeterdelune.com/buysextoys/
Also I wrote this piece specifically about men's toys:
Please let me know if any of those links don't work, but they should be good to go as far as I know!
Hope this all helps. Best regards, Demi
