Ughhhh the more I hear, the more I realllllly am glad I cut ties with him.
I felt so bad for him at first. Not any longer. He wanted his cake and to eat it too.
I really have no issue with people who have children together being not only civil to one another but actually being friends. It is possible. I've seen it. Damian and C's mom are working on this now. She and I have actually become friends. Shocker, right? But it's possible. There has to be a lot of communication but most of all TRUST.
Him being a lying ass snake made that impossible.
There also has to be an open line of communication between EVERYONE. There can't be any of that, oh well I don't want anything to do with her or him etc. It just doesn't work that way, because then, there will ALWAYS be a question of, well can i trust them, what are they doing? etc.
This whole situation was a disaster from the word go. Not even because he was cheating. But because it seems like he was never honest about his intentions.
Sending hugs always.