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What Do Women Really Find Attractive In Men?
The answers may surprise you
Women search high and low for a truly great guy. When we’re younger, we want it all: the guy with the model looks, fabulous family, fantastic job, who knows his purpose in life, and knows to automatically rub our feet when we get home from work. Once we realize that’s a fairy tale that doesn’t exist, we can reevaluate our priorities. That doesn’t mean we can’t have what we want, it just requires communication and work. What women really find attractive in men will vary from person to person, but here are a few things that are universal.
What Women Really Find Attractive in Men
1. An ability to enjoy the present moment.
With how busy and connected we are to everyone and everything virtually, it is so attractive when a man can put his phone down, turn off the TV, shut down the computer, and just enjoy being present. It is nice to be connected and be able to access almost any piece of information that we need at the drop of a dime, but to be able to shut down without getting antsy to get back to Facebook or football is something you don’t come by too often. In one speed-dating experiment, women were more attracted to men who were mindful — present, attentive, and nonjudgmental. What women find most attractive is attention.
