Yes, I get what you're saying. Visual aids can be very helpful when we're masturbating, and there is nothing wrong with using them. What we have to be mindful of are the types we're using. And one way we can do that is to ask ourselves, how porn literate are we? I will be working on some articles about this in the future with my work with TPC

I am a big advocate of porn. I use it, I enjoy it, and don't have a problem with ethical use, consumption, and production of it. I would love for more people to be mindful of those things, so I feel like in that way, it's kind of on me to help educate people about what means <3