You know my story. And I damn sure don't condone affairs. It almost broke me. But J has a lot of growing and work to do on himself. And he's not prepared to do it. If anyone wants to @ me, don't. I know a lot more than has been written here.

I am so sorry sweetie, this breaks my heart for you. But please do me a huge favor and give yourself some grace. Also, please don't give up on love. Just don't go looking for it anytime soon. Trust me, it will find you. Sending hugs and love. You know I've got your back.