You’ve been Perlmuttered for real with this one and I love it. I could have highlighted the whole damn thing too!! I’ll echo Elle with the YASS!!
I’ve wanted to write something similar to this after the shit show that happened on Twitter with the politician who said men are owed sex. Sex workers lost their minds in the comments, rightly. Because at who’s loss of rights?! The only way anyone can be owed something is when someone else loses their right to choose.
You make so many amazing points here.
As you know up til last month, I had also gone a full year without sex. I sure as hell didn’t choose it but it wasn’t involuntary by the definition of “incels”. I had plenty of self pleasure but was it how I would have preferred to be having sexual relations? Nope. Not sure when I’ll get back to having the amazing sex I had the first week of October, but I’ll also not be calling myself an incel til I do.
Thanks for sharing this. It was phenomenal.